As I go through the “Jonesing”, quitting cigarettes for the second time because I got overconfident after 21 years and thought I could cheat a little (ooops) it occurs to me just what an addict will do for tobacco; it doesn’t even have a positive effect, hmm, just creates anxiety, then relieves it.
The things I have seen a man do, for relief, for a drink, a cigarette,a gambling rush, a chance to get laid, or look good, or be recognized or appreciated…we are really stupid, ALL OF US!
What a man or woman will do to themselves to look a certain way, to their health to avoid giving up bad food, an addiction, or a fetish; how unhealthy people have become, what they spend their money on because they do not have enough self discipline to workout…the drugs they will take, the lies that they will buy, the known risks, and WE do it anyway..wow.
What is wrong with us? Why do we do these things? You are not going to like the answer.
We are flawed. An animal that can eat, reproduce, sleep, dies a happy animal. A human who can do only that, will destroy his or herself. We are made for more, desire more, seek more, will only settle for more.
We are made to create, disrupt, be at cause, to rule this world, actually. But we must be very careful. A human who is enlightened can have God-given power to affect the world around us; but an out of control “God” is equally destructive, on accident, unknowingly.
That is why there are rules, a plan, a way to remove the proverbial “wheat” fro the “Chaff” amongst humans.
We desire, crave, must have meaning, enlightenment, understanding. These are the intangibles that we seek to our own detriment, if necessary, and value above all else.
If you think that you are anything less than a developing God-child, you defeat yourself.
Don’t add to the noise that we all must learn to ignore, listen to the beautiful music beneath the noise.
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I am going to share something with you that a lot of people, even in my family, do not know. They all know that I do not sleep much, 4-5 hours at a time maximum. What they do not know is why; I have terrible dreams. This is because I have had a damaging, very hard past, but read on, for that is not the point.
You see, just like you, I am human. I have spent my whole life studying human character. What I have discovered is that it is not the good times that you remember, that define you, it is the hard ones.
The perspective that these very difficult experiences brand into your memory, define you, your will, your strength, and yes, even your joy.
I will spare you details of my very hard past, since even for me, it has been a challenge to have those memories not cripple me for life. But that, again, is not the point, because now I am strong, enlightened, and I cry tears of joy literally every singe day.
The unpopular truth is that without hard times, there are no good times. They come together you know. Without intense pain to create the perspective, there is no intense pleasure and pride. Life is a bundle of the good and the bad. Without down, you do not know which way is up, you might say.
No matter what you do, you get both, and the fact is that YOU actually define your happiness and sadness, nobody else, only you. Some are happy with very little, others are never satisfied with great riches.
But there is a problem with this scenario, a challenge which you must overcome to be a successful human.
You see, you have a mind, body, and soul. Everything that affects one, affects the others, and very importantly, everyone else.
Your subconscious mind is simply a computer, it records everything that you experience, good and bad, to draw upon later. It records patterns, lessons, emotions, actions, and results; like a hard drive.
Your conscious mind uses this information to make decisions, and along with your emotions, which are also affected by this stored information.
When you are well, well fed, rested, and confident, you have tremendous power to do more than you ever imagined, and every time that manifests, you become even more powerful.
It is easy for a wealthy person to achieve some happiness, but hard for that person to find personal satisfaction, and self-worth. True joy requires good and bad experiences, to create the contrast.
The problem is that when things are not good, they become worse, because you become reactionary, like an animal in fight or flight, you are “at effect” of your emotions, and your surrounding, and your past “Hot Buttons”; and you are no longer in control. These are times when you make mistakes. Every time you make a mistake, suffer a blow, a loss; it damages your self-esteem, and your boldness, and you age, and become weaker, and these experiences are added to your memories, subconsciously. These accidentally added experiences affect your future actions, and your results.
The real solution to all of your problems
Know yourself. Most people look in the mirror and see something completely different from what is there. For once, have the courage to see yourself for what you really are. If you do not know yourself, you cannot plan to make changes that will benefit you. You are stuck with you, you are your best friend, your worst enemy, so take inventory, honestly, so that you know what you are working with. It helped me a great deal to write it all down.
Forgive yourself. In step 1 above, you are going to confront some imperfections, because none of us are perfect. I know, at first it is a huge blow to your ego! But do it anyway, your ego is not helping you. It disconnects you from reality, makes you sad when you are confronted with the truth, punishes you for not meeting unrealistic expectations, and hurts you. You are you, not the person that you are trying to be, for whatever reasons. Five minutes after you feel this pain, you will relax, feel relief, and find a new compassion for the person that you really are, and the rest of us, for, like you, we are not perfect, and there are reasons for our mistakes also, which have nothing to do with you. Welcome to the human race. Relax, it gets better.
Be thankful for the miracles in your life. Considering all your flaws, and everything that you know that has hurt you and worked against you, your life itself, and everything good that has happened, is amazing. In fact, when you consider your chances of growing from a random sperm and egg into that amazingly complicated human that you are, every life is a miracle. Every single time that you did not die is a miracle. Every single time that somebody took the time to get your attention, to teach you, to encourage you, to love you, think of them now. Those are your real life angels, they are your proof of a hidden order to the universe, and that you are not alone. When you die, or are dying, these are the experiences and accomplishments that matter, everything else in this world is meaningless, just proverbial dust. Nothing else will bring you happiness or joy or love. The harder the bad times, the more intense your joy becomes in good times, like stored up happiness. As you begin to realize the perfection of how things are setup, and how it all makes perfect sense, the beautiful music beneath the noise becomes audible, as Herman Hess would say; and, if you have not already, I suggest that you read his books, and all of the classics that are no longer required reading, but are part of a true, classical, empowering education. When you listen to the beautiful music, all the noise in the background fades from importance, and you experience true joy.
Take control. Now that you have given up your fake ego, confronted your own weakness and imperfection, and admitted your faults, and your smallness, now you are living in reality. Now that you know that you are not alone, and that you do not need to be alone of you do not want to be, and that you have never been alone, and that you have been nurtured and helped and protected along the way always; now you have the confidence to plan out what you will do with this knowledge. With this release, let yourself go with this joy, and be empowered beyond anything you ever imagined for yourself, for no mater how hard this is for you, others had to overcome more, and they did, in less time, without hesitation, and accomplished amazing things. If they can, so can you. Anything is possible if you believe it to be so. What you think, what you believe, you become, if you can believe it to be so, and you can. It is up to you to focus on the good, to program your own hard drive, if you will.
Have respect for others who have gone on this journey. Without appreciation for the beauty of others, you will never realize that beauty within yourself. When you love, you become filled with love. When you hate, you became filled with hate. Become filled with love, what some would call Agape love, love that wishes nothing in return, love that is it’s own reward. You are made to love, and to be loved. Love is written right into your DNA. If you let it, love will take over everything that you are.
Focus on the good. You choose what to think, what to believe, and what direction to go in. When you focus on good and positive things, you create more good and positive experiences. As easy as this is, so many people do so poorly here, reacting rather than deciding. All you need to do to turn this around is to be still, and to decide.
Be Reborn with Spirit. Now that you are enlightened, and forgiven, start over. Knowing what you now know about yourself and the rest of us, and by accepting it as true, you can be renewed, and carry on, for the person who you once were was but a mere shadow of who you can now be! It is not about organized religion, every example of which in the Bible is bad, it is about history, and you, and who you are now, and who you were then. Think about what has been said here, and be enlightened.
The answer is no, if you think that I am selling you “Religion”, for religions are created for men, and are not necessarily from GOD.
But I AM trying to change your perspective, and your beliefs, because if I can do that, if YOU can do that, you can change your life for the better, and become so much more than you are.
I am attempting to give you enlightenment, to walk is HIS footsteps, to give you what I have; and that can only come from God.
Focus not on what was said about HIM, the Jewish carpenter.
Instead, study what he did, and said, and learn why, re-program your mind, and you will finally understand why so many of us desire to be more like HIM.
If it is hard for you to believe what is written, consider that we can do most of these things ourselves today, because we too are children of God.
“Why do you come to me “lord lord”…all of these things that I do, you can do, and even more! It is because I go to THE father.”
YOUR father defined your true potential before you were born, think about that.
Let me begin by pointing out that we are all a little bit Jewish:
The Mormons have led genetic research, following all the way back to one cave in the Ukraine, one pair.
Did you know that human DNA, from the shortest Pygmy, to the tallest Norwegian differs considerably less than that of two Doberman twins from the same mother?
I am, according to a DNA test my daughter took 100% Ashkenazi Jewish,
This is because, at one time, the last tribes, consisting of perhaps some 700+ families, were slaughtered by the Germans, but they kept a few women and children for slaves. These ancient tribes had only their tribe names, so they were told to choose one of four “Christian” names, Rothman was one of those; thus my last name is very common, Rothman.
However, as my college educated son would say “But, Dad, those genes are so dominant..”
Why should you care?
Because saying that we are all just a little bit Jewish, is realizing that all that means is that we are all human, something racists on both sides of the aisle, and all throughout history hate to admit; it is like saying that “there is only one God.”
In fact, what is written in the Isuzu, which is a little trinket with a very small scroll in it, posted on Jewish doorsteps, with these words, which God commanded us to teach our children, remember when coming in and going out, and post on our doorsteps: it is written to be chanted, or sung: Shema because Hebrew is actually a musical language. A language of song.
Sh’ma Yisra’eil Adonai Eloheinu Adonai echad.
Hear, Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.
In an undertone: Barukh sheim k’vod malkhuto l’olam va’ed.
Blessed be the Name of His glorious kingdom for ever and ever.
V’ahav’ta eit Adonai Elohekha b’khol l’vav’kha uv’khol naf’sh’kha uv’khol m’odekha.
And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. V’hayu had’varim ha’eileh asher anokhi m’tzav’kha hayom al l’vavekha.
And these words that I command you today shall be in your heart. V’shinan’tam l’vanekha v’dibar’ta bam And you shall teach them diligently to your children, and you shall speak of them
b’shiv’t’kha b’veitekha uv’lekh’t’kha vaderekh uv’shakh’b’kha uv’kumekha
when you sit at home, and when you walk along the way, and when you lie down and when you rise up.
Uk’shar’tam l’ot al yadekha v’hayu l’totafot bein einekha.
And you shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be for frontlets between your eyes.
Ukh’tav’tam al m’zuzot beitekha uvish’arekha.
And you shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
It is a blueprint, if you will, for survival in a dangerous world. All western culture is based on these principles, including Christianity.
There are many false religions, and false Gods. These commandments were given to the Jews to set them apart, to make them an example, and to introduce an uncivilized world to Elohim.
The fact is, we are not of this world, and we can prove it. These revelations will fundamentally change global society with a spiritual renaissance. When your mind and body are in unison with and aware of your immortal soul and your actual potential, anything is possible, everything is better!
Education, demographics and lifestyles will change dramatically on the years to come because of technological advancements. There are more opportunities for new ways of earning a living, without an outside job, than ever. Given these options in hospitality (AirBnB) travel (uber) and knowledge-based occupations (Internet, Social Media Journalism, advertising); more and more of us will work from home.
With mobile, diverse, mixed families, the break down of the traditional family will yield a new adopted family model, a ‘new tribe’, facilitated by the other advances above.
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Circumstances happen. We do not choose our own name, our genetics, our nationality, our physical attributes, or our religion, in our beginning. We have no power over where and when we are born, nor who our parents are.
However, from that point on, the lives that we live, are our own. Everything that we think, feel, and do is a creation; a manifestation, you might say, of our own free will.
Regardless of what circumstances you find yourself in at the moment, you have power way beyond what you are aware of to affect change, if you decide to do so; and no matter who or what you are, somebody who started with much less has accomplished more, with less hesitation, and in less time.
Success in anything, in life itself, is driven, is accomplished, is doable with awareness and realization of these truths, which we all recognize, because they are written into our DNA, because we are humans.
As for myself, I will now write this book, because I can, and I will.